I’m in Love with a Drug Addict – What Should I Do?

I’m in Love with a Drug Addict – What Should I Do?

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A reader writes in and asks: “I’m in love with a drug addict, what should I do?”

Good question.  Unfortunately there is no easy answer to this question, any path that you take, anything that you ultimately decide is going to be difficult for you.  Obviously the ideal situation is if the drug addict in your life suddenly decides that they want to change their whole life and start living clean and sober and they dive head first into recovery and embrace it with all of their heart.  If this happens it will have a lot more to do with the addict and their being at the point of surrender and it will not have much to do with you at all.  In other words, you are not in a position to control when this moment of surrender occurs and you do not have the power to wave any sort of magic wand and make someone suddenly want to recover. Furthermore, making an ultimatum of some sort is not likely to produce this sort of result either.  If someone is genuinely afraid of losing you due to their addiction it will not necessarily make them face their addiction and stop using.  More often than not it will drive them further into isolation and a deeper level of addiction to their drug of choice.

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So really there is only one thing that you should definitely do in this situation, and that is to get some help for yourself as an individual.  Now most people get a bit put off by this suggestion as they state that they are fine and it is the addict in their life that needs the help, not them.  But on the contrary, you cannot force the addict to get help and there are some things that you can probably stand to learn about dealing with an addict in your life.  In this case my biggest suggestion to you is to get yourself to an Al-Anon meeting.  If you are younger then you can go to a similar organization called Ala-teen.  These are meetings that are similar to AA meetings but they are for the friends and family of alcoholics and drug addicts.

You might hesitate to go to such a meeting and share your story but I would urge you to do so. There is nothing that could be more helpful in most cases.  Going to Al-Anon and sharing your story will open you up to a lot of feedback and support.  There you can also get expert advice on exactly what you should do and how you should behave around the addict and what you should decide about your future.

At some point you might have to make a decision to leave the relationship.  This is never an easy thing to face because there is so much comfort and security in staying together, even if there is some pain in the relationship due to the addict’s behavior.  If the addict has no intention of changing, or seems to be permanently stuck in denial, then at some point you might need to just move on.

 

19 COMMENTS

  1. I see you posted this 9 months ago. I know what you went thru. I am in still in love with my exboyfriend who has been a speed addict for 8years. I left him because of it. It was one of the hardest things I have ever done. I still think about him every minute. Sometimes we meet. He is worse then ever. It breaks my heart. I hope you are oke and going strong. It’s so hard to leave the addict for what it is and move on with your own life. But remember, it’s the best thing we can do for them and oureselves. They are sick. We can’t help them. They have to hit rock-bottom. We have to stay out and stay healthy.

  2. I knew a girl and she was on heroin and pills and her father was in prison and I tried to help but I fell in love with her instead. I miss her and I love her and I don’t know whats happened to her and it’s killing me. I’m really young so this is especially traumatic for me

  3. I recently discovered the man that I’m in love with has fell off and has started back snorting heroin. He has gone through a program and stopped before we met and now has admitted that he’s doing it once again. I gave him the choice to get clean or leave he says he’s going to get clean but today I believe he was high and he said he wasn’t so now were at odds and I don’t know what to do. I want to believe him but I don’t trust him. I don’t know what to do, I love him and I want this to work but I cant deal with the drug habit…..I have never had something like this in my life.

    • Hi Pamela I hope things have been getting better for you since your posting date. Those questions you ask and the feelings of doubt in believing or trusting that addict u love and care so much about it’s extremely hard to make any decisions. U probably feel like u are in a battle between your heart and mind like I am. My husband of 4 years and 6 years of knowing each other are going through the process of trying to mend our marriage. It’s been a long year of disappointment and heartache back to back. My husband is a meth addict,his road of addiction has lead him to jail this year in August. He is currently out on bail with his mother’s help, I don’t know if he will b taken back into jail or not. I’m filled with so much pain and hurt from his actions under the influence of drugs. I’ve found this to be a traumatizing event in my marriage. I’m overwhelmed with the fear and thought of relapse that will trigger the same cycle of pain and suffering. He has physically, emotionally, verbally abused, and financially drained me within this year. This was never the life I had imagined with him or anyone else. Once I saw that he was capable and content to live his life without his loving wife I walked away filled with sorrow and ultimate sadness as tho my husband had died and I mourned for him many nights. We had our separation, I tried moving back in May and at the end of the month I had moved out and back to my parents. I finally decided to stop contacting him and checking up on him at our apartment. Now he has contacted me and begging me to forgive him and want our marriage to continue. I held back from filing for a divorce but when I did I just want it to be all over. I no longer wanted any part of his self-centered negativity, non moralistic lifestyle. My husband never responded to the divorce papers I filed, so it’s up to me to go and filed for a divorce by default. He has been clean for 3 months now but I’m not convinced that this sober him will last long. I love him so much that I forgot to love myself. He wants me so dearly to go stay with him but my anger and bitterness holds me back from wanting the same thing he does. Like I said before I love him and care about him but feel as tho I’m not in love with him as I was before all the damage. I feel pressured and rushed back into our marriage like everything is fine and were so in love it all good, but that not how I feel. I need time but he’s under pressure because of his consequences of possible more jail time. I feel as tho I should be selfish and try to find myself and healing before I can try to come together to work on us. Just as he should deal with his hearings and getting more help with his addiction. I just hate the drama and feeling of being the reason or responsible on how he’s feeling and if it will lead him back to using. Just like u I can’t deal with the drug habit and I refuse to have a drug addict husband or boyfriend, etc.

        • Hello, Anonymous welcome to Disqus website. You must have stumbled across this website just as I did on a sleepless night 2 years ago. I hope that you are slowly taking things one day at a time. It’s a very difficult spot to be in any relations that end up here at this website. As for your question, yes I did give him a chance to make his amendments to me. I don’t know if it was a sign from God, but the day before I decided to go finalize the papers for our divorce by default. I received a letter from my husband forwarded to me from my mother-in-law. That letter stopped me from finalizing our divorce, I couldn’t go through with the divorce not hearing what this sobered up man had to say to me. Reading the letter brought tears to my eyes, and I felt the a heavy burden lift off my shoulder knowing that he was sobering up jail and not dead somewhere else. It was very challenging tho but the one thing I know about my husband is his characteristic of persistence. Feeling so consumed with anger an resentment for all the hurtful and painful things he put me through, my heart had closed up and a huge firewall had built up as a defense to not letting my heart and emotions be played with. I had to start at square one again, by just being there for him as a friend. The moment I tried to be his wife, I would find myself at times just bursting into a emotional wreck. I couldn’t hold myself back from wanting to give him a taste of his own medicine. I was very broken from this event in our marriage, deep inside I knew this wasn’t who I was. Once that seed of anger was planted into my heart it found my own challenge trying to get back the the person I was before my broken heart. I started to feel darkness over take my heart and it made me into a selfish person. I didn’t want to care about him and made everything about me and what he did to me. At one point I thought to myself this is normal and I’m just venting and letting my anger out. As time went by I couldn’t stop bringing up the past and blaming my husband. I knew I had to let go and forgive him if I loved him still and want to find peace within my heart. My trust for him was gone at that time and I felt abandoned my husband along with my best friend in him. He patiently worked with me and took all the blows willingly and showed me he really wasn’t going anywhere. I had to pray to God to take away my anger, resentment and restoration my faith. The man he was in this time of amending wasn’t the drug addict that caused me all the hurt. The man before me now was remorseful and had turn his life around to God. I remember feeling the relief that he was sober and it was almost like I felt life, warmth and love emerging from him once again. That self-centered, addict part of him had departed. I would go visit him in jail and a part of me was glad to see him recovery but I was still going thru my own recovery too struggling to love him fully as I did before. At times I wouldn’t want to talk to him because I knew that the resentful person inside me wanted to just come out and throw punches at him. I felt bad after lashing out at him, and realize my problems were coming from me not acknowledging him as he was in the present and kept lingering on the the past of the addict who caused me such heartache. Now after 2 years of working things out we have finally moved back in together. He is still sober from his addiction and dedicate his life to putting God first. I’m proud of him and I say that our marriage is stronger now than it’s ever been. I hope that my testimony will help you and other’s who are going through the struggle and after effect of loving a drug addict. Addiction a terrible disease and truly a battle that the addict himself has to be ready to face.

  4. I want to use this medium to tell the world about Doctor Jatto who helped me in getting my lover back with his powerful spell, my ex and i where having misunderstanding which led to our breakup though i went to beg her several times to please forgive and accept me back because i know i offended her but each time i went i always feel more deeply in pain and agony because she always walk out on me and would not want to listen to what i have to tell but on i faithful day as i was browsing i came arose a testimony of a woman whose problem was more than mine and yet Doctor Jatto helped her with his spell so i was happy and also contacted Doctor Jatto for help via email and then told him my story but the only thing he said was that i will wipe you tear with my spell so lucky for me everything want well just as he promised and right now i have got my fiance back and we are both living happily. there is nothing Doctor Jatto can not do with is spell and just as promise my self i will keep testifying on the internet of how Doctor Jatto helped me.Are your problem greater that mine or less i give you 100% guarantee that Doctor Jatto will put an end to it with his powerful spell, contact Doctor Jatto for help Via email [email protected]

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  5. Hi Lovesick in Jersey, to answer your question yes u should attend as many Al-anon or Nar- anon meetings as possible. Take this time to really shared your thoughts and feelings and listen to others with similar situations. I believe if will help u understand that addiction is a bad disease that affects everyone not just the addict alone. I know Im going thru my battle with my meth using husband. Ive attended a few Nar-anon meetings and I feel the comfort that I’m not alone. That it’s not my fault because I used to believe I did something to make him go back to using. Best of Luck and God Bless

  6. Me and my ex-husband at all times have always tried to stay friendly over again after our divorce which occurred in early September this year. So i met with this spell caster Lord shinnok on the internet after a long search. And he told me everything that i needed to do, and he also assured me that he is going to reunite us in just 24 hours later after his spell casting. So he started his work on Monday 27th Oct. You are not going to believe this. He is back!!! Yes, he really came back in 24 hours just as you guaranteed Sir. Now I’m fully persuaded that you are a legit and authentic spell caster and your website is the best i have ever come across. This is so mind-boggling for me. Anthony is back!!! I haven’t by any means experienced something like this before. Thank you so much Lord Shinnok. I never expected such a result. Dream come true. Wow! You were so kind with me. “And may your kindness float back to you like ripples that float back to sea shore”. Thank you Sir for your precious help. I have never been so happy in my life like the way i am today. You are a genuine spirit.You and your work will never be forgotten for making me a fulfilled woman and reuniting me and my ex husband once again.. You are my hero.. The kids are overjoyed to have their father come back home for good. Sir here i am sharing your testimony just as i promised. here is his Email: [email protected]. thank you so much sir from your grateful client Shelly Gerald.

  7. Me and my ex-husband at all times have always tried to stay friendly over again after our divorce which occurred in early September this year. So i met with this spell caster Lord shinnok on the internet after a long search. And he told me everything that i needed to do, and he also assured me that he is going to reunite us in just 24 hours later after his spell casting. So he started his work on Monday 27th Oct. You are not going to believe this. He is back!!! Yes, he really came back in 24 hours just as you guaranteed Sir. Now I’m fully persuaded that you are a legit and authentic spell caster and your website is the best i have ever come across. This is so mind-boggling for me. Anthony is back!!! I haven’t by any means experienced something like this before. Thank you so much Lord Shinnok. I never expected such a result. Dream come true. Wow! You were so kind with me. “And may your kindness float back to you like ripples that float back to sea shore”. Thank you Sir for your precious help. I have never been so happy in my life like the way i am today. You are a genuine spirit.You and your work will never be forgotten for making me a fulfilled woman and reuniting me and my ex husband once again.. You are my hero.. The kids are overjoyed to have their father come back home for good. Sir here i am sharing your testimony just as i promised. here is his Email: [email protected]. thank you so much sir from your grateful client Shelly Gerald. ITS AN AMAZING WEBSITE

  8. I have never posted on a site before but I feel the need to reach out for help. The love of my life is addicted to meth. When I first met him he was in rehab. He is a veteran that did two tours in Iraq. When he got out he was diagnosed PTSD and anxiety. We became good friends and he shared his story with me, he was so bad off that he became homeless. However when I met him he was close to leaving the program one of the first questions he asked me was if I did drugs cause he didn’t want to be around it. He got a job in another state and would come home on weekends. We broke up for about a month and texted occasionally when we finally reconnected he asked me to come there for a week and quote..save his life he was back on it. I went and stayed for a month, he was clean and happy. We recently had another falling out and right back to the drugs he went. I found out he got arrested for possession and is awaiting court. Talked to him last night and he has given up. I know he’s going to die and it really scares me. My family and friends don’t know what a good person he was cause they were never around him so its hard to talk to them about this but need people to talk to that understand.

    • I understand entirely. I am going thru the very same thing. This
      innocent sweet gal (all of 50 but doesn’t look it) has admitted to these
      addictions (massive quantities of anti-anxiety, anti-depressants,
      multiple pain pills, alcohol and numerous sedatives) and you would never
      know it looking at her. She is kind, sweet, even loving (when sober)
      but claims “she is aware and can quit/slow down on her own”. She has
      put her life, my life, our life, even her KID’s life in jeopardy and
      basically is “breaking the bank” with her habit (buying presciption meds
      from people). She gets highly irate & defensive each time the
      subject is brought up and it is, for this reason, I am no longer living
      there (even though we are co-owners of the house). I am at a loss for
      what to do. I know her contacts, who is feeding her, what she’s taking,
      how many … I am just no longer going to get involved. Others
      (friends/relatives) are starting to shut her off (not allow her to move
      in with them, no longer give her money, support her habit). I feel I
      need to do the same. It is a shame, however. She is a very pretty gal
      who I am in love with (and she “claims” is in love with me). Addicts
      KNOW they’re addicts. They just don’t know the severity of the
      problem. They see others (Heroin, Coke, Crank, Meth) and consider
      themselves “lucky. THEY are the only ones who can put a stop to it.
      No one else.

  9. Hmm this is different for me but i figured since im researching drug addiction to try and understand my boyfriends problem i thought why not try this site.. seems like everyone on this site needs help themselves and it is really ok… Im starting to go nuts, keeping things to myself dont know who to really talk to about this horrible addiction my bf suffers with… its HERION that stuff is actually unexplainable! I am not an addict and i have no idea what its like to be addicted to anything, i dont do drugs.. ever… He is mentally and physically dependanct on herion and its just so sad to see.. i mean if hes not high hes actually just miserable and locks himself away from the world… he needs to be high all the time! its actually really hard talking to him he keeps saying he will get sober but i mean its not happening.. he has been to rehab 4 different times, done the 12 step program, went to SOME meetings after but all else seemed to fail… he contiued using drugs again.. the sad thing is if hes not high he wont do one thing wont even talk to u till hes high, or till he has got his candy drug from the dealer. he started off using oxy and got pretty bad into that.. then lead to herion .. his parents think he is sober right now before they never really let him take the cars out or go anywhere cause the trust was totally shot.. he came out of rehab starting hanging out with me and they trust me but little do they know hes secretly using and using and using….. i feel guilty i want to tell them yet again.. hes getting high but i just got him a job everyone in the family seems all happy i jus dont want to be the bear of bad news at the moment but i know soon i will say something just dont know how to at the moment :I and it sucks to watch him get high before working at a factory all day i just dont want to see him bored and using at home while im at work all day 9-7 i feel the only thing that makes him happy is this drug and im so over this shit! he needs to get help again asap but i feel all the freedom he has. plus this new job part time. plus parents not thinking hes high everything is working in his favor and im really the only one who knows hes secretly using! i cant do this alone.. his parents help sooooo much and they can afford to help him 200 more times if it takes… just dont know what to say and how to bring this up PLUS court is coming up for him in about 4 weeks! i dont even think he could go to rehab he might face some jail time …

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  12. I want to say thanks to this great man called Dr okunad who helped me in my marriage life. my name is maria Hasbarger lives in USA memphise so i was married to Albert we both love and like each other before our marriage, he care about my well being so i was so happy that i have found a man like this in my life my parents love him so much because of his kindness towards me and the way he care about me after four years in my marriage, no child he was not showing me much care anymore but i notice something is going on which i no. then i keep on with the relationship and i was hoping one day God will open my way to have a child in my home then i keep on going to church from one play to another by telling all the pastors about my problems that i don’t have a child so many of them promise me that soon i we have a child in my home i keep on hoping in God’s miracle on till one day when i went for a visit in my friend office then i was welcome by my friend we started dis causing about so many things on marriage life i was so shock she ask me about my wedding and what is going on till now i still don’t have a child then i told her my dear sister i don’t no what to do anymore and am scared of loosing my husband who have be caring for me for a long time now then she said i we not loosing him i ask how? then she said there is one man called Dr okunad who help in a relationship then i keep on asking how about him she told me this man can do all thing and make things possible i never believe her for once that this man she is talking about can do it so fast. also i ask her how do i get his contact she said i should not worry my self then she gave me his contact email ID and his number to contact him i said OK i will try my best to do so she wish me the best of luck in life then i went home gotten home, found that my door is open i was scared thinking so many things i don’t no who is in my house now i look at the key in my hand i was thinking i did not lock my door shortly a word came into my mind that i should go inside and check if there is any body at home or my husband getting inside, i found that my husband move away his things in the house then i started calling his number refuses to pick i was like a mad Dog i cried and cried don’t no what to do then i remember to that a friend of mine gave me a contact today i take my computer i emailed this man called Dr okunad also i called him on his cell phone which i received from my friend he spoke to me very well and i was happy my husband we come back to me so after the work was well done by Dr okunad, just in three days i heard my phone ringing not knowing it was my husband telling me his sorry about what he did to me then i accepted him again a month later, i was pregnant for him so i rest my testimony till i deliver safely i we give the best testimony again so my sisters and brothers if you are in such pain kindly contact this great man with this email {[email protected]}.com or call or call him on +2348110651073
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  13. OMG!! This is certainly a shocking and a genuine Testimony i have ever
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    after my husband separated me and my marriage of 8 years was broken down
    and i was totally inconsolable and without hope because i have tried all
    means to get my husband back after much pleading and did everything
    possible to make sure that he comes back, but nothing worked out for me….
    And i saw a marvelous testimony with this email adress
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    Dr Omoze on the forum.. And i saw how Dr Omoze reunited a family and
    brought the Husband of a woman back to her in just 24 hours..I never
    believed it, because i never heard nor learnt anything about magic before..
    Not a soul would have been able to influence me about magical spells, not
    until Dr omoze did it for me and restored my marriage of 8 years back to me
    and brought my spouse back to me in the same 24 hours just as i read on the
    internet..i was truly astonished and shocked when my husband came to my
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    and my entire life and family.. he did his work just as he guaranteed me in
    24 hours and it yielded an optimistic result to me and i was able to get my
    Husband back. right now my Husband has falling so much in love with me and
    my kids like never before. This spell casting isn’t brain washing but he
    opened up his eyes to see how much i love and wanted him, i really don’t
    know how best to be grateful to you Dr omoze for bringing happiness into
    my life and family, and now i am a joyful woman once again.. here is his
    Email: [email protected], or connect him with these number +2348036640164

  14. OMG!! This is certainly a shocking and a genuine Testimony i have ever
    seen..I visited a forum here on the internet on the 20TH OF JUNE 2014,
    after my husband separated me and my marriage of 8 years was broken down
    and i was totally inconsolable and without hope because i have tried all
    means to get my husband back after much pleading and did everything
    possible to make sure that he comes back, but nothing worked out for me….
    And i saw a marvelous testimony with this email adress
    [email protected] of this powerful and great spell caster called
    Dr Omoze on the forum.. And i saw how Dr Omoze reunited a family and
    brought the Husband of a woman back to her in just 24 hours..I never
    believed it, because i never heard nor learnt anything about magic before..
    Not a soul would have been able to influence me about magical spells, not
    until Dr omoze did it for me and restored my marriage of 8 years back to me
    and brought my spouse back to me in the same 24 hours just as i read on the
    internet..i was truly astonished and shocked when my husband came to my
    house and knelt down begging for forgiveness and for me to accept him
    back.. I am really short of expressions, and i don’t know how much to
    convey my appreciation to you Dr omoze.. you are certainly a God sent to me
    and my entire life and family.. he did his work just as he guaranteed me in
    24 hours and it yielded an optimistic result to me and i was able to get my
    Husband back. right now my Husband has falling so much in love with me and
    my kids like never before. This spell casting isn’t brain washing but he
    opened up his eyes to see how much i love and wanted him, i really don’t
    know how best to be grateful to you Dr omoze for bringing happiness into
    my life and family, and now i am a joyful woman once again.. here is his
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  15. When i met my husband then it crystal clear to me that he was the man of my dream. When i looked at him, i saw perfection. He was tall, respectful, looked at me like i was the only one on earth i mean words cannot describe that moment that is the day we met. It lives on here in my head. I know i was not blind and i know there was nothing really to make me suspect he also like the company of men as well as women. Yes i mean we were sexually active just like every other normal couple who are in love. It never seem like he was avoiding me when i want to have *** like he always comes up with excuse no he was just like every other man. I only got to know when i was two years into our marriage. The first year was healthy for us i mean we were happy and had our first child. It was my sister who caught him passionately kissing another man in his car after spending all night together in the movie theater. He told me he was going out with friends for a drink or two. I was hurt because he was not honest with me and also was cheating on me. Even before i knew, this thing he had going on started before we got married at least he was honest about that. Hadn’t been my sister, i would have been locked in the dark. I have nothing against same sex relationship but when you claim to love a woman and also want to be with a man it becomes a problem i mean you are either with one or the other. You can’t be married to me and expect me to shear you with another be it a woman or a man. We promise we will stay together just us and not us with some one else. I gave him an ultimatum it was either me or his male love i was hoping his love for me will make him pick me but no he ended our marriage simply before he could not pick. H wanted it all i wished i never made him choose then. I was in a traumatized i could not understand how he could be so selfish i mean we have a son together you don’t just walk out like that. I remember i even asked him to go ahead with relationship with his lover as long as he was here with me but then i realized i would be at the losing end in all ways. I was so much in love with him letting him go was not an option for me i mean i knew that if it wasn’t him it was going to me no other. After months of trying and searching with no success to find a way to make him see i am more important than his lover i came across a lot of comments on the internet of how a spell caster Obudun Magonata and how he has help a lot of individual with relationship and life problems. I was skeptical about it but i thought giving it a try would not kill me. What can i say, my experience with Obudun Magonata was real, honest i mean everything that was said about him was nothing but all true. I shared my problem with him that is how my husband ended our marriage because i was not OK with him have a male lover even when we were married and what i needed him to do for me. All i had to get was the materials needed to caster the spell that was going to get me my husband. I could only find one of the spell materials but he help me get the rest with the total estimated cost i sent to him for help. I don’t know how to explain what happen just after the spell process was concluded and made effective with the parcel he sent to me. I was like a fairy tale i mean i got my love back my family was whole again. My husband picked me he choose to be with me. It been more than six months now all i can see is a man loves and dedicate his self to me he goes every where with me aside work though yeah. -Contact him here at spiritsofobudunmagonata”at””yahoo””dot””com” convert email address to the standard email format. Hope you all with similar problem get all help from Obudun Magonata also.

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