My name is Terry, this is my first post here. I am 45 and ready to make a serious effort at giving it up. I simply cannot drink in moderation, never have been able to since the very first time alcohol touched my lips. Its always all or nothing. Its simply taking too much of a toll, its robbed me of too much. I have never had a DWI nor am I a morning or lunch drinker, but evenings after work and weekends always drinking to excess. I am tired, just sick and tired of it. I could be a better father and husband without alcohol, period. Today is my third day without a drink.