Those who have a serious drug problem should take a look at their life and get honest with themselves. Ask these questions in particular:
1) Do I want to stop using drugs but find that I cannot do it, even against my own will?
2) Have I tried to stop using drugs in the past but failed?
3) Have I suffered any consequences as a result of my drug use? Would my life be better without my drug habit?
And so on. You get the idea. If you have tried to stop using drugs and found that you cannot do it under your own will power, then your drug problem has escalated into what is known as a drug addiction.
There is nothing bad about this word: addiction. If you want to do something about your problem with drugs, then you need to accept the fact that you are addicted and do something about it. This requires a conceptual leap of sorts, because anyone who is still abusing drugs and is also addicted to them is essentially in denial.
“What a minute,” you say. “How can I be in denial if I know that I have a problem?” Ah. This is the tricky part. Denial is when you do not accept your problem. You can admit to it all day long, sing la dee da, and keep on abusing drugs. This is denial. Breaking through this level of denial requires a deep acceptance of the problem on your part, followed up by action to correct it.
In other words, denial is knowing that you are addicted to drugs and refusing to seek help for it.
Getting past a problem like this requires one thing: action. And of course, action requires willingness. And getting that willingness requires a decision. So, the drug addict must make a decision. They have to decide that it is time to change their life and finally do something about their drug problem.
Once they have made the decision, then they can start taking the necessary actions that are needed to resolve the problem. And what are those actions? They may be different for different people. For example, one person might go to a 12 step meeting with a friend, and thus start down a new path that way. Another person might check into a drug rehab center, and then start attending counseling and group therapy on a regular basis. The path might vary from person to person. But the important thing is to find the willingness to take real action.