Cocaine Addiction
Anyone who dabbles with occasional cocaine use and turns it into a habit has crossed the line into cocaine addiction. This is because cocaine is a “lifestyle drug,” in that it is very much about the user’s perception of themselves while they are using it.

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There is an element of glamorization that goes beyond other drugs when regarding cocaine. People who use it feel like they are hip, cool, and really living on the edge. They feel that other people are not strong enough or smart enough to live this life that they are living. This is the mindset of cocaine addiction. It is the reason why the psychological addiction with cocaine runs so deep.
In reality, cocaine is not as physically addicting as most other drugs. This can be evidenced by a lack of withdrawal symptoms when the user stops taking the drug. With most chemicals, such as alcohol or opiate based drugs like painkillers or heroin, people who stop taking the drugs go through unpleasant and sometimes even violent withdrawal symptoms. But this is not really true with cocaine. Any withdrawal symptoms are going to be very mild or almost nonexistent, even for a heavy user. The withdrawal is psychological.
More likely to be experienced is the emotional loss of giving up the lifestyle that I mentioned earlier. Cocaine addicts who are attempting to quit might complain that life is now boring or not worth living anymore without the lifestyle of cocaine use. This is because they were addicted to the lifestyle of addiction as much as they were to the drug itself.
For example, the need to get more cocaine is part of the lifestyle. Calling people or dealers and meeting up with them is part of it. Staying up all night and partying due to the drug is part of the lifestyle. Chopping up lines of coke and the rituals involved with either smoking it or snorting it are all part of the lifestyle. Using the drug with other people and the bonding that comes from doing so is part of the lifestyle. It’s all about the partying and the night life and the people. It is a lot to give up all at once when someone makes an effort to get clean.
Overcoming this addiction to lifestyle is a real challenge in the long run, and that is why I advocate creative recovery. The addict must create a new life for themselves in order to stay motivated and be content and move forward with their life. It is too much to ask someone to give up a life of glamor and partying (even if it is just perceived glamor) without offering them anything in return.
Creative recovery is the prize for staying clean. It takes time in order to get there, but after building a new life in recovery and finding new things to be passionate about, we can replace our passion for that old lifestyle with new purpose in our lives.
The only hitch is that it does not happen overnight. The addict has to give it time in order to make it through early recovery. Action leads to good things if we only give the process of recovery a chance.
Becster Says:
I have an older sister who has been a on again off again crack addict for about 4 years and she has manic depression on top of it. It all started when she lived in Flordia for awhile and got really bad into it using and prositituting and even exposed her childern to that environment. She lost her kids and she still see one of her kids sometimes on a regular basis cause she lives with my mom. My mother lets him stay with her when shes trying to get clean, my mother acts like my nefew is a burdon and drops him off there so she can have time to herself. My mom has a bit of a drinking problem herself. Her son, who is 10 has behavior issues as well because he’s been though alot. I don’t know if thats the best situation for him to be there with her alone. She calls me lately and is depressed and erratic in her behavior when talking to me. I live out of town to be able to deal with things better to create some distance. I’ve tried to ask her if she’d get some help and go back to rehab. She thinks she can do it herself, her boyfreind has distanced himself some too and she’s really needy for attention. I see her sometimes but not very much and I don’t know if that helps or herts. I just don’t know what to do anymore, I guess just wait it out and try to be as supportive as I can. She just stresses me out when I talk to her, she has alot of energy and its hard to deal sometimes. I don’t know if you can tell me anything more than what I had to deal with. But it has caused me to be more closed off with people and have trust issues. I just would like some sanity sometime soon.
Patrick Says:
Hi there Becster
Sounds like your sister is on a bit of a crash course. Hopefully she will run into some hard consequences (like legal problems) that will set her straight in some way and maybe expose her to a solution that works for her.
In the meantime you need to fight for your own sanity. You say you will “try to be as supportive as you can.” That might not be the best idea depending on what you mean by “supportive.” If I were you I would go to an Al-Anon meeting so the people there can help you to determine exactly what kind of boundaries you should develop. You need real world advice from real people in a face to face setting, in my opinion. That can give you some direction and hopefully some serenity in your own life…..
anon Says:
i can’t believe i have to read this :( cocaine has became my boyfriends addiction. he doesnt even know how much pain he is cosing me